Saturday, October 18, 2014
Aug 31, 2015 - Saving Mr Banks
I have not been so emotional during a movie in years! Saving Mr. Banks was an amazing journey. Not only was I on an emotional roller coaster through the stories on screen is was taken through my own childhood. As a child we lived in the country with VERY little. No cable, no phone, no frills. Many times we had to conserve water from the cistern and take sponge baths. We did however have a television and a VCR. Mary Poppins was one of the few movies I had to watch. I grew up with Mary Poppins. I could put the movie in and lose myself in the stories and pretend I was anywhere but where I was. I think all families have it rough and as we grow up we choose the memories the we keep. Saving Mr Banks shows that there are some times when you just need to face your past in order to let go. No longer to be chained to the memories that define us. I chose a good morning to lose myself in a movie. Thanks for the memories. Perhaps it will help. ❤️
Aug 14, 2014
After 13 days straight of cheerleading practices, clinics and camps I am finally home. I am so incredibly blessed to be able to share my knowledge of cheerleading and coaching across the state. I have my dream job. It's not an easy job and it's certainly not a high paying job. But the emotional rewards are worth more than any amount of riches. This summer has rewarded me with a lifetime of memories and friendships.
I am thankful for the coaches that believe in me and the students that have found a passion for cheer. I am beyond grateful for the friends I have made along the way. The coaches and athletes that have become my very best friends.
I have the most amazing husband that understands my passion for coaching and is willing to take Jillian for a whole week by himself while I travel across the state.
Now I need to take a few days, get back into the grove of family and home and allow my body some rest!
April 10, 2014
Five years ago today my life was changed forever. In the last five years, I have made choices and took chances that prove that I am only human. My life has not taken a path that I planned, but I regret nothing that I've done to this day. Each choice, chance and trial has led me here. I have a husband that I love more than anything. A beautiful daughter and a job that I love. There is nothing that I would change other than maybe some of the people that I have hurt and some that are no longer in my life. I am healthy, happy and blessed with some of the BEST friends that anyone could ask for. ❤️☺️
My "Someday" is here and I love every minute of it.
March 14, 2014
Please excuse the soapbox and rant in advance.
Recently I saw an article the was very derogatory and belittling to my generation of adults that are not "taking care" of their parents. It went into detail about how it would be the least we could do to care for them after all they sacrificed for us.
At first I didn't think much of it. But as it festered in the back of my mind and as other "events" have transpired I feel obligated to say screw you to the author of the article. You don't know me. You don't know my situation or of my family. You have no idea what we as a generation went through growing up or deal with in our lives. We didn't ask to be born and we certainly didn't ask our parents to make sacrifices. They did that on their own. And let's face it, some sacrificed a lot less than others!
Yes, our parents probably did make sacrifices for us as kids, but if they are not sick or disabled and we have families and kids of our own, why are we still being expected to suffer? What if the parent in question is simply lazy? Why should our children and my families suffer? Why should we have to get second and third jobs to support them and miss out on the lives of our kids... Who ironically did to ask to be brought into his world? Why do we have to miss out on things that we worked hard to earn because of their poor choices.
My generation (30-40 years old) has parents that are 50-75 years old as whole. Most of those parents are contented, able bodied adults. There are a few that are sick and in need of assistance, but as a whole they are a healthy generation. Why is my particular age group being targeted?
Life is not fair. We know this, it's not news. I was not given any breaks growing up. I struggled often and received help from some pretty great people, who received help growing up. But now that I'm starting to get back on my feet, I'm being attacked and punished by people who have done very little to help me or encourage me in my life. At what point do we, as a generation, get to say enough is enough?! I suffered, did my time and figured it out. Now it's your turn.
Jan 22, 2014
Growing up.
We all do it.
We coach our kids on how to do it.
The funny thing is we never stop. We are constantly growing, learning and living life. The more we live life, the more we grow. As we grow our lives change and evolve. What we want an need changes. Our tastes change and our friends change. Thus causing more growth. It's a never ending circle.
Over the last year I've grown a lot. I have realized that I am quick to judge and quicker to say no when something is not done my way. I am learning that my way is great (duh). but Gosh darn it so are a lot of other ways. What I do, I do for a reason. Usually I've tried and failed and come to a conclusion of how I need something done. But that doesn't mean that someone else's way
or idea is wrong... It's what works for them.
I apply this to coaching because this season I have tried to be more accepting of others coaching styles and my cheerleaders interest in making suggestions. Some days I just can't. Some days I'm too overwhelmed or stressed to relinquish control. But the days that I do step back and let others try things... Shockingly it usually goes just fine!
For some, your probably thinking... Yeah, we all learned that a hundred years ago... Well being an OCD control nut tends to limit your learning curve and ability to relax. Please be patient with me!
I don't know if my cheerleaders or my other coaching friends have noticed, if they haven't it's ok. Our struggles and accomplishments don't need to be recognized by others in order to make them valid, only that we see it and work towards a better us. (Something else I've learned.)
As one of my best friends is always saying; "We're the same, but different."
This is true! We are all working towards the same goals. We know what works for our kids and our programs. We should never stop listening to each other or encouraging each other. You never know when listening to another persons idea will help you develop your self into the person you were destined to become.
Sept 2, 2013
This a post from a year ago.
The word for this weekend is insignificant. That's how I feel lately. I have probably accomplished more in the last year than I normally do, but the things I have accomplished are not important. I have also made some poor choices and messed up some things.
In march I began organizing the coaches alliance. For some reason it was important to me to get all the coaches together and form a support group for each other. I went through the motions and I rallied the coaches and many of them came together to support the alliance. We formed the group, defined our purpose and what our goal was. But why? Why was that so important to me? Is it really going to make a difference?
In April I completed the A to Z blogging challenge. 26 blog posts in 30 days following the A to Z theme. It was hard and it took a significant amount of time. But for what purpose? I guess it did give me more material for the book that I keep telling myself I want to write. But I am no closer to being done with the book now than I was. I need to start before I can finish.
In August I completed the 31 caches in 31 days geocaching challenge. This means that for the month of August I went out and found one Geocache each day. It got me out of the house and gave me some bonding time with a few friends. It also taught my three year old what geocaching was. But why? Why was it so important for me to finish? Why does it matter? What good did it do to go just for Tupperware in urban areas?
Also the last part of August I chose to stop drinking soda. I have now been off soda for 21 days. I know that in the grand scheme of things this will help me be more healthy. Yet, I do not feel better. I have not lost weight. I still want to drink soda and I haven't cut back much on the caffeine. So why do it?
Why can't I accomplish the goals that mean something? The ones that will make me a better person or healthy. Why is it that I can't finish school it get back on shape for the half marathon? Are my goals too big? Am I really afraid of success? Why can I finish the things that only mean something to me and not benefit anyone else? Is it lazy? Where is the discipline? What is wrong with my motivation?
Why can't I focus on making me better? I am quick to judge and to fast at opening my mouth and jamming my opinion down others throats. I was told by someone I love very much that I make a bad first impression. Why can't I figure out how to be better at fixing those things. Yes, it bothers me a lot that people think poorly of me. I really don't mean any harm. At least I don't think so. Why do I struggle with that? How can I just change my focus and make sure that my family always cones first? I want them to be happy and all of us to be healthy. I want to know that if I died tomorrow that people would remember me for something positive, not just being an opinionated bitch.
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